July 29, 2015


A Michigan divorce case has garnered a great deal of press in recent weeks. A family court judge, utterly frustrated by the children's refusal to spend time with their father, ordered the children to spend their summer - and perhaps longer - in a juvenile detention center. The judge found the children in contempt of court for refusing to obey an order, and terminated the mother's contact with the children for the summer. We are not privy to the details of the case, so we can't make an informed comment on the judge's remedy, other than to observe that it is extremely unusual and probably inappropriate, possibly counter-productive.

In our experience, it is sadly not unusual for one parent to work to alienate the children from the other parent, encouraging them subtly or openly to refuse to spend the court-ordered placement time with the other parent. It is not difficult to imagine the pain, frustration, and helplessness of the alienated parent. Of course, sometimes the children's refusal has nothing to do with alienation by a parent, and everything to do with mistreatment or abuse in the other home. In this situation, however, the court must be presented with evidence of the mistreatment; otherwise there is no legal basis for a court to permit the children to refuse placement.

Judges vary in their responses to this situation. The Michigan case demonstrates an extreme interventionist approach, completely disrupting the family until the children comply with the order. Other judges go to the opposite extreme, basically throwing up their hands and announcing that they will not order a child to be physically forced to see a parent; this approach is relatively common as children near the age of majority. Most judges fall somewhere between these two extremes, utilizing other tools to try to address the underlying issues. They might order therapy for the children and the alienated parent, order the alienating parent to undergo a psychological evaluation, order that placement be supervised by a person trusted by the children, or order a temporary placement change.

In Wisconsin, the "Enforcement of Physical Placement Orders" statute, § 767.471, is intended to make it quick and easy for a parent who has been denied placement by the other party to get into court and obtain an order for compensatory placement time and fees, as well as other remedies. These remedies are of little help when it is the child who is denying placement. Often, however, courts utilize these tools to "encourage" a parent to ensure that a reluctant child follows the placement order. For example, a parent should impose consequences on the child for refusing to go to the other parent's home, just as they would impose consequences for a child's refusal to go to school or comply with household rules. With young children, judges tend to be more willing to hold the parent responsible for ensuring that the child sees the other parent. With older teens, courts may be less willing to hold a parent accountable for the child's refusal.

At Wessel, Lehker & Fumelle we have experience with these difficult, intractable family situations. We have had cases in which judges ordered mental health evaluations and treatment, threatened foster care for the children, declined to enforce the placement order. In one case the judge took all of these positions at different times over the course of the litigation.

Our advice for parents facing this painful situation is two-fold. First, do not involve the children in the dispute or try to take the law into your own hands by physically forcing the children to go with you. Such efforts will inevitably come back to hurt you. Secondly, get legal assistance as early as possible, as soon as you encounter resistance or refusal from the children. The more entrenched the patterns and resistance are, the harder it will be to successfully interrupt them and get shared placement back on track.

July 1, 2015


The attorneys and staff at Wessel, Lehker, & Fumelle add our voices to the joyful choir welcoming the United States Supreme Court's decision in Obergefell v. Hodges that the right to marry is a fundamental constitutional right which cannot be denied on the basis of sexual orientation. Progress!

June 24, 2015


Venue and motions to change venue in Wisconsin courts are governed by the statutes found at Wis. Stats. § 801.50 through § 801.64. Those statutes apply to family law cases through §767.201 and the related residency requirements of § 767.301.

Family law cases, however, are unique in their continuing nature. While most types of cases are finalized after entry of judgment (except, of course, for appeal remands and sometimes enforcement issues), family law cases frequently require the court's continuing action after entry of judgment for modification of placement or custody, modification or termination of child support, maintenance issues, placement enforcement, etc. As families move around the state in our mobile society, venue issues often arise: which county is most convenient for the parties, where is most of the relevant information located, etc.

The family code, § 767.281, provides a simple way to change venue for post-judgment modification and enforcement motions, petitions, and orders to show cause. With the title, "Filing procedures and orders for enforcement or modification of judgments or orders," one might not expect this statute to provide a useful mechanism for transferring a post-judgment family case to a more convenient or appropriate county, which perhaps explains why the statute and procedure are little used or understood. But in an appropriate case, this statute can simplify and streamline procedures as families move around the state.

While the statute does not explicitly authorize the filing of a post-judgment motion in a county other than that of the original judgment, its language implicitly permits it by setting forth the procedure to be followed when a post-judgment motion is filed in a new county. Pursuant to Subsection (1m), if a post-judgment motion is brought in a county other than the county that entered the judgment or order, the moving party is required to send a copy of the motion to the original county, along with a copy of the new summons. Then, if a dispute arises regarding which court should exercise jurisdiction, both judges and all counsel "may" hold a conference to resolve the issue. Once a new order is entered in the new county, the moving party must send a copy to the original court.

Subsection (2) sets forth additional, more specific provisions where the post-judgment motion concerns child support, family support, or maintenance payments. These post-judgment motions must be brought in the original county or in the county where the minor children "reside," unless the parties stipulate to filing in another county or the original court finds good cause for the motion to be filed in another county.

At Wessel, Lehker & Fumelle, we have used this statute to change venue for post-judgment proceedings quickly and easily. We have also found, however, that courts and opposing counsel frequently are unaware of the statute and the simplified procedures it provides. Successfully utilizing the statute often requires educating the court.

May 21, 2015


Last year, in the context of divorce, we blogged about enforcement of and challenges to the property division provisions of a marital property agreement, or prenup. Under Wisconsin law, courts must presume that these provisions are valid and enforceable unless the prenup is shown to be inequitable. Caselaw, beginning with Button v. Button, has interpreted the meaning of "inequitable" under these circumstances.

But the analysis is different for prenup provisions regarding maintenance (alimony) at divorce. While property division provisions are governed by Wis. Stat. § 767.61, maintenance provisions are governed by Wis. Stat. § 767.56(1c)(h). That statute provides that an agreement "concerning any arrangement for the financial support of the parties" is a factor the trial court must consider in making a maintenance decision. A prenup thus is just one factor regarding maintenance to be considered by the trial court, along with other factors such as the length of the marriage, the parties' earning capacity, etc. The factors are listed at Wis. Stat. § 767.56(1c), along with the catch-all "such other factors as the court may in each individual case determine to be relevant."

The difference is significant. Regarding property division, the burden is on the spouse who is challenging the prenup to show that it is inequitable; if the spouse cannot make such a showing, the inquiry ends and the terms of the prenup are enforced. Regarding maintenance, there is no presumption, no shifting of the burden between spouses; rather, the trial court weighs the evidence and exercises its discretion in determining maintenance. The focus is not on the prenup itself, but on the prenup in the context of the statutory maintenance factors and the twin maintenance objectives, support and fairness. See, e.g., Hefty v. Hefty.

May 1, 2014

Estate Planning in Wisconsin Pending Divorce

A friend of the family died recently at age 54. He and his wife had lived apart for several years; they were planning to divorce, perhaps had already started a divorce action. As with most divorces, a variety of problems plagued the marriage, but a big one was his wife's excessive spending.

My friend had started to move on with his life. Like most people in those circumstances, his time and attention were focused on establishing housing, working out continuing financial obligations, dealing with his emotions, navigating co-parenting, building new relationships. Changing his estate planning documents was not among his priorities. It may have occurred to him, but it was buried under the mound of other tasks demanding his attention. And of course he did not expect to die at 54.

My friend did not change his life insurance beneficiary designation; his life insurance proceeds were paid to his wife. He did not change his retirement account beneficiary designation; those proceeds too were paid to his wife. He did not change his will, which left everything to his wife, including the substantial investment accounts he had recently inherited from his parents. His children are at the mercy of his spend-thrift wife; no one expects that there will be much left for them as they reach adulthood.

My friend's case might sound extreme, but these sad situations do happen. While most financial events (such as division of property) occur when the divorce is finalized, you should consider making changes to your estate planning documents as soon as you have made the decision to separate your life from your spouse's. Evaluate what will happen to your property if you die while the divorce is pending, and make sure it is what you want. Under the laws of the State of Wisconsin, your spouse will continue to have a right to and an interest in some of your property. But you can take steps to ensure that, to the extent possible under Wisconsin law, your property will be distributed as you wish at your death.

January 17, 2014

Termination of Child Support in Wisconsin When a Child Reaches Adulthood

In Wisconsin, parents have an obligation to support their child financially until the child is 18 years old. This support obligation can extend to age 19 if the child is in high school ("pursuing an accredited course of instruction leading to the acquisition of a high school diploma or its equivalent"). Wis Stats. § 767.511(4). Termination of child support when the child "ages out," however, does not happen automatically. Sometimes the county Child Support Agency contacts the parents and then moves to terminate child support. But ultimately, the burden is on the parents to make sure child support terminates at the appropriate time. If the Child Support Agency does not act on your behalf, you may need to file a motion and obtain a court order terminating child support.

If you pay child support and your child is nearing the age when your obligation to pay child support ends, pay attention to your case. Contact your attorney or your county Child Support Agency to ensure that your child support does not continue to accrue after your obligation to pay support has ended. If you miss the termination date and over-pay child support, you may be able to recoup the overpayment by filing a motion and asking the circuit court to order repayment. But this is a time-consuming and potentially expensive remedy that is best avoided by ensuring that your child support terminates when it should.

If you have more than one child, it may be in your interest to seek modification of child support as each child approaches age 18/high school graduation. Before you do so, though, calculate your prospective child support obligation based upon the parties' current financial circumstances to be sure the amount of child support you pay will decrease. For example, if your income has increased significantly since entry of the previous child support order, a recalculation of child support may actually increase your support obligation, even though you will be paying support for fewer children.

November 15, 2013


Maybe you entered a marital property agreement (prenup) prior to your marriage, and now that you are contemplating divorce, you assume there is no point in discussing division of property because the prenup's provisions will control. Or maybe you are considering signing a prenup as an iron-clad guarantee that if you ever divorce, property will be divided as you wish.

In either case, think again. Yes, in Wisconsin, prenup provisions concerning division of property are presumed to be valid and enforceable pursuant to the divorce statutes. Still, there are many possible grounds for challenging a prenup and having it thrown out.

Challenges to the property division provisions of a prenup are analyzed under Button v. Button, 131 Wis.2d 84 (1986), and cases applying Button. In summary, Button provides that a prenup may be vulnerable to challenge if the parties did not make full financial disclosure to each other before signing the prenup and entering the marriage. It may be vulnerable to challenge if one spouse did not have a meaningful choice whether to enter the agreement, considering factors such as adequate time to evaluate the agreement, advice of independent counsel, and comprehension of the agreement. It may be vulnerable to challenge if it was unfair to one of the parties based upon their circumstances at the time it was signed, or if it is unfair to one of the parties at the time of divorce due to unforeseeable changed circumstances. Under Button, a prenup will be thrown out if a court finds that it fails on any one of these points.

Marital property agreements (also known as premarital property agreements) can be a valuable tool under many circumstances. But keep in mind that they are not always invulnerable.

March 25, 2013


Late last year we blogged about our continuing efforts to uncover accurate income information for former spouses/partners despite their efforts to conceal their income or assets. The February 2013 Newsletter from Tracy Coenen and Sequence Forensic Accounting contains a timely discussion of this topic, titled Divorce Financial Analysis: Disappearing Income and Asset Values. Ms. Coenen provides an accounting perspective on approaches and techniques for developing an accurate financial picture despite a spouse/partner's lack of cooperation or active efforts to obstruct or hide assets or income. Read her article at:


October 12, 2012


Throughout your legal representation, it is imperative that you respond to your attorney in a timely manner when information is requested. Most often a hearing date is coming up and we must adhere to court deadlines to exchange documentation and provide it to the opposing party. By responding on time to your attorney and providing the necessary documentation, you will save money. Repeated efforts to track clients down or get the information needed from other sources probably will show up on your bill one way or another.

But most importantly, it will help your case. When attorneys do not get timely information from clients, they simply cannot be the efficient, effective advocates they strive to be. They may not be able to present your case in the best light. They may alienate counsel or the court. They may have to delay things to your detriment. They may not be able to file the appropriate documents with the court because they do not have all the necessary information.

When you receive mail or email from your attorney, please open and read the mail immediately. You often will be requested to take some action such as gather documents, schedule appointments, sign papers, or pay court fees. It is crucial that you read all incoming mail and respond to the action requested. Advise your attorney of the best way to provide you with written materials, i.e. either by mail or email.

You may be required to provide "discovery" to the other side, which is most often paperwork. In many family matters, and particularly in divorce, you will be required to provide copies of any financial documents the other party requests. You may have a desire to hold back documents and use them for surprise purposes at trial. We have seen parties punished severely by the court for taking that approach. It is in your best interest to cooperate with requests for information in a timely manner.

There may be several orders issued by the court while your case is pending. You should keep a separate folder for copies of your orders. You should also carefully read and understand the content of every order. If you have any question about the meaning of an order, please discuss it with your attorney. It is crucial that you comply with all of the orders in your case. Failure to do so may lead to you being found in contempt of court, and may tarnish your image with the court. It is sometimes possible to modify an order while your case is pending. You should discuss that possibility with your attorney.

In summary, providing the required information to your attorney in a timely manner will not only make the legal process easier, it will save you time and money and keep your legal action moving forward without delays.

September 19, 2012


About once a year here at Wessel, Lehker & Fumelle we encounter an opposing party who is intent on hiding income. A party's income, of course, is highly relevant information for purposes of setting maintenance (alimony), establishing child support, or changing the amount of maintenance or child support. Some support payers are working on perfecting the art of hiding or disguising income or assets, treating the support recipient much like they probably treat the IRS.

The signs are often fairly obvious. A party may report an income that barely covers expenses, yet take lavish vacations or acquire expensive toys. Or a party, often self-employed, may report an income that is substantially lower than it was before the parties split. Sometimes a party reports the former partner's penchant for half-truths and misrepresentation. A party's exhaustive or creative opposition to reasonable financial disclosure may signal interesting records.

Fortunately, the statutes authorizing access to information are broad in Wisconsin. Wisconsin Statutes Chapter 804 authorizes discovery of all "relevant" information, whether or not it is actually admissible at trial. And courts have little tolerance for parties who play loose with the facts. Once we can show some manipulation or lack of candor, courts are often willing to authorize a deeper investigation or impute income. We have also found that when the opposing party realizes that we are not simply going to accept the represented income as the whole truth, a reasonable settlement suddenly becomes more attractive.

Conversely, we sometimes have clients or potential clients who try to enlist us in their efforts to hide income or assets. We always push for full, accurate disclosure - not only because it's the right thing to do, but also because any other course exposes a party to significant risk. In Marriage of Lellman, for example, the trial court estimated Lellman's net income at $100,000, rather than the $11,000 Lellman claimed. The court of appeals affirmed: "Because Lellman did not produce the necessary financial records and because he intentionally misrepresented both his income and expenses, the trial court was left to determine a reasonable figure attributable to Lellman as a net annual income. . . . [N]ot only may Lellman's conduct be punishable as contempt or perjury, but [] it was Lellman's misconduct that placed the court in the position of being required to make reasonable approximations. Lellman cannot be heard to complain that this approximation was excessive when the precise information available to make that determination was in his exclusive control." Lellman also was ordered to pay his former wife's attorney fees.

If necessary, we will withdraw from a case rather than ignore a client's unethical behavior.

June 1, 2012

Child Support in Wisconsin: May v. May

On April 3, 2012, the Wisconsin Supreme Court issued its decision in May v. May. The attorneys at Wessel, Lehker & Fumelle represented Michael May in this post-judgment child support dispute, and have blogged about the case previously. The issue presented in May was whether agreements between parents to set a floor on child support are unenforceable because they are against public policy, just has agreements to set a ceiling on child support have been held unenforceable because they are against public policy. See previous posts in this blog for further explanation of the issue.

In an opinion that has further muddied these already murky waters, the Supreme Court affirmed the trial court's decision to enforce the child support agreement. The Court held that the Mays' agreement did not violate public policy because "the circuit court retains its equitable power to consider circumstances in existence when the stipulation was challenged that were unforeseen by the parties when they entered into the agreement if those circumstances adversely affect the best interests of the children." The Court flatly ignored a central issue: That in a shared-placement case, the financial resources in both homes affects the children's best interests.

As Justice Bradley noted in her concurrence, the majority opinion "creates confusion rather than clarity." It is small consolation that Justice Abrahamson's dissent shows a clear understanding of the issues. Abrahamson states that the parties should not have "the ability to stipulate to a truly unmodifiable child support floor. This result is necessary because freedom of contract cannot take precedence over the best interests of the child.[fn2] While it is more frequently the case that raising the amount of child support would be in the child's best interests, situations could arise in which lowering the amount would be in the child's best interests because of fluctuations in the parents' income levels."

May 14, 2012

Child Placement and Custody in Wisconsin: What About the Child's Wishes?

Last week I attended the thirty-sixth annual conference of the Wisconsin Inter-Professional Committee on Divorce. One full day was devoted to the topic of the voice of the child in custody and placement disputes. Wisconsin Statutes provide that the "wishes of the child" is a specific factor for the court to consider. See Wis. Stats. Sec. 767.41(5).

But what does that mean in practice? How much weight should the child's wishes be given? And how can the child's wishes be accurately ascertained in the fraught environment of a pending court action?

A pending Wisconsin Court of Appeals case explores these issues in the context of a post-judgment placement modification motion. Wessel, Lehker & Fumelle argued in that appeal that it was error for the trial court to base its placement decision exclusively on the child's preference. Read our briefs here. Watch this blog for updates.

Kris Lehker

April 23, 2012

Registering Orders for Enforcement in Wisconsin

If you're looking for a Wisconsin court's assistance with enforcing an order from another state, one trap to be wary of is the differing registration provisions for enforcement of support orders vs. enforcement of custody and placement orders.

The Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) sets forth at Wis. Stat. § 822.35 the procedure for registering an order for placement and custody. The Uniform Interstate Family Support Act (UIFSA) sets forth at Wis. Stat. § 769.601 - 608 the procedure for registering an order for support. Both statutes specify the registration procedures, the steps that the registering court must take to provide notice, and the procedures and standards for contesting registration. While the basic procedures are similar, there are differences, and registering an order for purposes of one of the statutes will not suffice for registering an order for purposes of the other.

Contact the attorneys at Wessel, Lehker & Fumelle for assistance with these complex statutes.

March 25, 2012

Divorce Rate for Americans Over Age 50 is Increasing in Wisconsin, Nationwide

958839_woman_walking sxchu website.jpgAlthough divorce rates have declined across the nation, divorce is becoming increasingly common for Americans age 50 and over. In fact, the divorce rate for the age group has reached an all-time high. In 1990, about 10 percent of individuals divorcing were over the age of 50. By 2009, that number was approximately 25 percent and more than 600,000 people in the United States over 50 chose to end their marriage. By 2030, more than 800,000 people over the age of 50 are expected to divorce each year.

A survey conducted by the AARP in 2004 reportedly found that women between the ages of 40 and 69 were more likely to initiate a divorce than men. Men initiated a split in only 34 percent of divorce cases within the age group. Additionally, infidelity played a factor in only about one fourth of divorces for older Americans. 53 percent of the time, it was not the first divorce for at least one of the spouses. In fact, Americans aged 50 to 64 who are previously divorced are reportedly twice as likely to become divorced again. For those over 65, the likelihood quadruples.

Experts believe many members of the so-called baby boomer generation are seeking additional fulfillment as they reach the empty nest stage of life. They are purportedly looking ahead and seeking to make the most of their remaining healthy years. Divorcing during a recession can be complicated, however. A spouse who is awarded an underwater home may be burdened with additional debt.

Despite the rising baby boomer divorce rate, the AARP survey found that being alone was the top fear among both women and men between the ages of 40 and 79. Perhaps as a result of the divorce trend, dating websites geared to the 50 and up crowd are becoming increasingly common. In 2011, the number of dating website users over the age of 50 reportedly grew twice as fast as any other age group.

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March 15, 2012

Wisconsin State Senator Introduces Bill That Would Associate Single Parenthood With Child Abuse

1152328_kids_at_play sxchu.jpgWisconsin Senator Glenn Grothman has sponsored a bill in the state legislature that would make single parenthood a recognized contributing factor to child abuse and neglect. Senate Bill 507 would require the Wisconsin Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention Board to teach that children are less likely to be abused or neglected in a so-called traditional household consisting of both of a child's parents. The bill was co-sponsored by State Representative Donald Pridemore.

Critics of Senate Bill 507 believe its wording will create a slippery slope for single parents in the state. Senator Lena Taylor, a single parent herself, has expressed outrage over the bill. She believes Senate Bill 507 is blatantly hostile towards women. According to Nicole Angresano of the Milwaukee United Way, the language is non-inclusive and unnecessarily divisive. Angresano believes Grothman has unfairly placed all single parents into the same category.

According to Grothman, the intent of the proposed law is being misunderstood by the public. He said the bill is aimed at promoting public awareness regarding child abuse and neglect. Grothman stated he is not trying to make state law call single parents child abusers. Grothman claims children are 20 times more likely to experience abuse in households where they are not raised by both natural parents. He believes the Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention Board should be teaching that a traditional family is a superior way of raising children.

In 2009, more than one-fourth of children under 21 in the United States lived with a single parent. Single mothers also reportedly outnumbered single fathers by a ratio of 5 to 1. In Wisconsin, approximately one-third of all parents are single. Senate Bill 507 would not establish criminal or civil penalties for single parents, but would affect what the state-funded the Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention Board teaches. The board currently has an annual budget of $3 million.

Family law is an emotional subject due to its very nature. Every year, many Wisconsin residents find themselves in the midst of an unexpected divorce. The host of emotions associated with the end of a marriage can be understandably overwhelming and the financial damage can oftentimes feel devastating. One of the best ways to deal with divorce is to prepare yourself and your children for the possible emotional roller coaster. If you are contemplating divorce, a qualified family law attorney can help you protect your interests.

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